One of the most powerful weapons in your fight against porn addiction, social media addiction and other sources of brain rot it: healthy replacement habits.
Healthy replacement habits are the positive, brain boosting sources of dopamine that will replace the addictive habits you are trying to get away from.
But there's a problem...
"I get bored and don't know what to do..."
If I had a dollar for every time I heard that. 🤑
We've reached a point in human existence where abundance has become our downfall. We have so much of everything, we don't really need anything anymore.
Sure we want nicer stuff, but meh, we kinda, sorta, not really motivated to get it.
- 🍕 We indulge in calorie-dense food. Lot's of it. Delivered to our doors.
- 🏠 We have a roof over our heads, far removed from primitive cold, damp caves or mud huts.
- 📱 The realm of hyper-stimulating entertainment is boundless, offering an endless array of brain decaying options.
Despite this abundance, a considerable number of us remain dissatisfied, often teetering on the edge of misery. We grapple with mild to severe addictions, unsure of how to navigate the one and only thing that is actually lacking in abundance.
Time.
Time is your most limited resource, and ironically, it's the one you seem uncertain about utilising—except perhaps for consuming more calories and, uhm... porn.
I'm not here to shame you; you're likely already doing that to yourself.
I'm addressing this because I genuinely want to assist you. This predicament is the prevailing condition of the world today, and frankly, it sucks—for both you and me.
None of this is your fault.
Big Tech, Big Pharma, and Big Mac got us by the balls while we weren't paying attention. Well, we were paying attention, but to them, not to how we should wisely spend our time.
So, it's not your fault that you're unsure about how to spend your time.
Yet, it is your responsibility to effect change, and I hope this article can guide you towards that transformation.
⚠️ This is a Long List ⚠️
This page aims to present you with a HUGE variety of activities to engage in. Of course it's too many.
But every skill listed here shares a common trait — they are things you will likely struggle with initially. However, with persistent effort, you can progress and become proficient.
Such is the nature of skills.
The reward for mastering something over time is what we call HEALTHY DOPAMINE.
It serves as the antidote to your depression, misery, lack of confidence, fluctuating moods, urges, whining, moaning, and your general inability to function as a high-value individual in this world.
Throughout your life, you'll want to aim to master a few things from this list, but for now you need only pick one thing.
How do you choose?
The problem with a list like this is that it doesn't solve the problem of choosing what to pursue.
This list almost makes it even harder to decide what to do.We get it!
But don't stress, we will address this problem too.
Right now, first take a look at what's out there.
Have a look at all the things you could be doing with your time. And let it all sink in.
NOTE: If the skill toggle has a ⭐ on it, it means we have suggested a starting point. So these are usually good options to try out next time you're bored.
Now, let's get into it.
The Ultimate Skills List
HOW TO USE THIS LIST 📝
This page serves as a browsing list, allowing you to explore various skills across numerous domains to upgrade your life. In our MASTERCLASS we can go into the details of skill development, but for now, here's the condensed version of how to use this list.
Step 1: Scan the list for interests. 👀
Step 2: Write down your top 3 options. 📝
Step 3: Pick one of them. ☝️
Step 4: Start doing research on the one you selected. 🔎
Research: Spend 90min looking for YouTube videos, books, courses, tutors, coaches.
Look for ALL the options of how you could engage in learning this skill.
Step 5: Repeat the research step for the other 2 you picked. 🔎🔎
Step 6: Choose "the best option". Develop an implementation plan. 📋
The best option: The best option is the one you can realistically start learning as soon as possible. You have access to the resources to get started immediately. Found a tutorial? You good to go!
Implementation plan: How can you incorporate "skill-practice" into your daily or weekly routine? What does the process of forming a habit to gradually initiate progress resemble?
Step 7: Find accountability to help keep you on track. 🤝
Step 8: Share and celebrate small wins along the way. 🙌
Step 9: Build Momentum. Double down on the things that work. 💨
Step 10: Enjoy the effects of Healthy Dopamine in your life. 💪
Physical Skills: 💪 🥗 🧗 🥊
Get Healthy & into Great Shape
This is everything to do with your physical health. This encompasses all aspects of physical well-being such as mobility, fitness, training, sports, physique, diet, nutrition, and outdoor or action-oriented hobbies.
Movement Skills 🤸♂️
Movement skills benefit you by enhancing dexterity, flexibility and strength. These skills contribute to overall physical and mental well-being, improved coordination and the ability to engage in a wide range of activities with efficiency and precision.
Precision and fluidity define staff spinning, an art where practitioners manipulate a staff with mesmerising patterns, enhancing coordination and agility.
Acquiring this skill is straightforward and can be mastered with just a few practice sessions, leaving you well-equipped to impress others.
Begin your journey with this tutorial:
VIDEO LINK
This option is particularly well-suited for beginners seeking to boost their confidence and trust in their ability to quickly acquire something impressive.
Emulating animal movements to improve strength, flexibility, and coordination.
Everything you need to get started in this tutorial right here: VIDEO LINK
Developing the strength and balance required for a stable handstand position.
Yoga: Mastering various yoga poses and sequences to enhance flexibility, balance, and mindfulness.
Pilates: Engaging in controlled movements to strengthen the core, improve flexibility, and enhance overall body control.
Mastering the art of tossing and catching multiple objects in the air, juggling requires hand-eye coordination and timing, offering both dynamic entertainment and cognitive exercise.
Practicing balance on a suspended line to improve core stability and focus.
The fusion of bartending and flair, bottle flairing showcases bartenders' agility and creativity through the captivating manipulation of bottles and bar tools.
Cardistry is the mesmerizing art of skillfully manipulating playing cards through intricate and visually captivating flourishes, without the intent of traditional card games.
Honorable Mentions: Cartwheel, Back Flip, Front Flip, Human Flag, Crawling, Hanging, Squatting as well as hand coordination tricks like Magic and Illusions. (Musical Instruments later)
Want to challenge yourself to learn a movement skill in 30 days? Check out this challenge
Sports 🏋️
This list includes good'ol regular sports—activities traditionally associated with maintaining fitness. Some can be pursued individually, while others involve team participation.
Look at that, making friends already!
Calisthenics is a kind of exercise where you use your own body weight and usually don't need any fancy equipment.
The exercises include movements like pushups & pull-ups that work big muscles.
They're good for getting better at coordination, flexibility, and strength.
There are 100s of great YouTube channels to get you setup and going. Here is one now:
Execute powerful and precise lifts, including the snatch and clean and jerk, in this strength-focused discipline designed to enhance overall physical prowess and explosiveness.
Embrace the simplicity of this fundamental sport, improving cardiovascular health and endurance while enjoying the freedom of the open road or in nature.
Experience the thrill of speed and the challenge of endurance as you pedal through diverse terrains, promoting cardiovascular health and fitness.
Master the art of racket sports, combining precision, agility, and strategic thinking in an intense game of back-and-forth.
Display lightning-fast reflexes and precise ball control in the miniature court, engaging in a high-paced game of table tennis that demands agility and strategy.
Unleash agility and teamwork on the field, using skillful footwork to manoeuvre the ball and score goals.
Achieve fluidity and endurance as you navigate through water, mastering strokes for both recreation and competition.
Showcase teamwork and strategic plays as you volley the ball over the net or through the hoop, combining agility with precise serves, passes and spikes.
Display grace, strength, and flexibility in a series of acrobatic movements, showcasing mastery in various apparatus routines.
Engage in the quintessential American pastime, combining precision, teamwork, and athleticism in a game of pitches, hits, and runs.
Navigate waterways with precision and synchronized teamwork, harnessing strength and endurance in the rhythmic strokes of rowing.
Showcase quick reflexes and strategic gameplay, using a lightweight shuttlecock to volley with precision in a fast-paced and dynamic sport.
Embark on the ultimate endurance challenge, combining swimming, cycling, and running in a multisport event that tests physical and mental resilience.
The most important thing about choosing a sport is your ability to be consistent. You need loads of repetition to really get your skill development going. So make sure you love what you're doing and you can participate at least twice a week, preferable more.
To learn more about how to be consistent with your workouts, check this out.
Action Sports 🏄♂️
These adrenaline-pumping activities cater to those who seek a heightened sense of excitement and adventure. They are harder to do more regularly, but because they can become quite addictive they take up a lot of your focus and quickly displace bad addictions like porn.
Ascend vertical surfaces, testing strength and problem-solving skills in a challenging and rewarding outdoor or indoor climbing environment.
Conquer the waves with balance and skill, riding the surfboard to experience the exhilaration of the ocean.
Perform tricks and stunts on a skateboard, often in skate parks or urban environments.
Navigate urban environments creatively, using acrobatics and efficient movement to overcome obstacles.
Race motorcycles on off-road tracks, incorporating jumps and challenging terrain.
Glide down snowy slopes with a snowboard, combining balance, control, and daring tricks in an adrenaline-fueled winter sport.
Honorable Mentions: Mountain Biking, Base Jumping, Skydiving, Jet Skiing, Wakeboarding, Kiteboarding, White Water Rafting, Paragliding, Bungee Jumping, Wingsuit Flying, Street Luge, Free Running, Skiing (Freestyle and Freeride), Park Skiing, Diving, Sandboarding, Windsurfing, Off-road Skateboarding (Mountainboarding)
Martial Arts 🥋
While it's great to practice Martial Arts in a school or class, you don't have to limit yourself to that. Plenty of online videos can teach you the basics.
Grab a friend, start learning together, and if you enjoy it, think about joining a school nearby.
A Japanese martial art that emphasizes striking techniques using punches, kicks, knee strikes, and elbow strikes.
Originating in Korea, Taekwondo focuses on high, fast kicks and jumping and spinning kicks, with an emphasis on kicking techniques.
Developed in Japan, Judo is a grappling-based martial art that emphasizes throws and takedowns, with a focus on using an opponent's force against them.
A martial art that focuses on ground fighting and submission holds, emphasizing leverage and technique to overcome larger opponents.
Also known as "The Art of Eight Limbs," Muay Thai from Thailand incorporates kicks, punches, elbows, and knee strikes.
Developed in Israel, Krav Maga is a practical and efficient self-defense system that incorporates elements of boxing, wrestling, and street-fighting techniques.
An umbrella term for various Chinese martial arts, each with its unique styles and techniques, such as Wing Chun, Shaolin Kung Fu, and Tai Chi.
Originating in Brazil, Capoeira is a blend of martial arts and dance, characterized by acrobatic movements and kicks.
Honorable Mentions: Kickboxing, Kendo, Hapkido, Silat, Escrima/Kali/Arnis & Sambo
Combat Sports 🤼
Focuses on punches, footwork, and head movement, with the goal of outscoring or knocking out the opponent.
A versatile combat sport that incorporates various fighting techniques, including striking and grappling, allowing competitors to use a range of martial arts styles.
Involves two competitors using grappling techniques to gain control over each other, aiming to pin the opponent's shoulders to the ground for a victory.
A Russian martial art that focuses on practical and adaptable self-defense techniques, including strikes, joint locks, and ground fighting.
Weaponry ⚔️
Weaponry encompass the proficiency and knowledge related to the handling, maintenance and strategic use of various types of weapons designed for combat or defence.
These skills often involve a combination of precision, discipline, and tactical understanding. Great for the body and mind.
And please be careful... make sure you learning from a professional!
Hone your skills in staff combat with Bojutsu, a Japanese martial art dedicated to the effective use of the bo.
Awesome Beginner tutorial: Bo-Staff Fighting
Master the art of the blade with disciplines like fencing, emphasizing foil, épée, and sabre, or Iaido, focusing on the swift and precise drawing of the sword.
Explore the art of the spear in Naginatajutsu, a Japanese martial discipline specializing in the use of the naginata, a polearm with a curved blade.
Cultivate precision and meditative focus in traditional archery, with a historical & ceremonial approach to bow and arrow.
Immerse yourself in the Filipino martial arts, Eskrima, Kali, and Arnis, which encompass stick and blade fighting alongside empty-hand techniques.
Embrace the traditional weapons of Okinawan martial art, Kobudo, including nunchaku, sai, tonfa, and kama.
Honorable Mentions: Silat (Bladed Weapons), Krabi Krabong (Staff, Sword, Spear) & Kendo (Bamboo Sword).
Dancing🕺
Dancing is an excellent way to level up your social skills and maybe even attract a date. Yes, a real man knows how to dance! 😉
Lively and social dance styles originating from Latin America, characterized by energetic footwork and hip movement.
You can do this without a partner: Salsa Basics
A partner dance style with standardized steps, including styles like waltz, tango, foxtrot, and cha-cha.
An energetic and social dance style with roots in jazz music, including Lindy Hop, East Coast Swing, and West Coast Swing.
A form of dance where participants perform a sequence of steps in a line or rows.
A dynamic and urban dance style encompassing various street dance forms like breaking, locking, and popping.
Krump: A highly energetic and expressive street dance style that originated in Los Angeles.
B-boying/B-girling: A dynamic and acrobatic street dance style that emerged as part of hip-hop culture.
Honorable Mentions: Contemporary, Jazz, Tango, Tap, Ballet and many many more.
Survival & Bushcraft 🏕️
Want to feel like a REAL man? Then learn how to survive the apocalypse. This has become a very popular sub-genre on YouTube. Plenty skills to learn here.
The ability to find your way in the outdoors using tools like maps, compasses, and GPS devices. It involves understanding terrain features, reading maps, and orienting oneself to navigate from one point to another.
Skills related to efficiently packing and carrying gear for extended trips into the outdoors. This includes load management, selecting appropriate gear, and understanding the principles of backpacking.
Techniques for constructing temporary shelters in the wilderness using natural materials or camping equipment like tents. Shelter building is essential for protection from the elements during outdoor adventures.
The ability to safely build and manage fires in outdoor settings. This skill involves selecting appropriate firewood, using fire-starting tools, and understanding fire safety principles.
Knowledge and skills to provide initial medical assistance in the event of injuries or illnesses. This includes basic wound care, CPR, and addressing common outdoor-related health issues.
Skills for locating and procuring water in outdoor environments. This includes identifying water sources and methods for purifying water to make it safe for consumption.
Mastery of essential knots for various outdoor activities. This skill is important for securing gear, creating shelters, and performing tasks such as climbing or boating.
Weather: The ability to observe and interpret weather conditions in the outdoor environment. This includes reading the sky for signs of changing weather, understanding weather patterns, and staying informed about forecasts.
Wildlife: Knowledge and skills related to understanding and coexisting with wildlife in outdoor settings. This includes identifying animal tracks, recognizing potential risks, and adopting responsible behavior to avoid wildlife disturbances.
Cooking Skills 🔪
Mastering the basics of cooking isn't just about making tasty meals; it's a path to independence and a valuable life skill.
You will want to start with the basics. Do you know how to make rice? What about a pasta dish, or a lasagna? These cooking skills are your entry into a flavourful world, allowing you to impress the ladies, your family and maybe even yourself.
Master the art of chopping, dicing, and slicing with precision using different types of knives.
Learn the technique of quickly cooking food in a small amount of oil over high heat.
Perfect the art of cooking food in an oven, often resulting in a crispy and flavorful exterior.
Develop the skills to cook over an open flame, imparting a distinct smoky flavor to your dishes.
Explore the science and art of baking, from bread and pastries to cakes and cookies.
Hone the technique of gently cooking food in simmering liquid, often used for delicate proteins like eggs and fish.
Master the process of briefly boiling food, then quickly cooling it to preserve color, texture, and nutrients.
Learn to craft a variety of sauces, from classic French sauces to international flavors.
Develop the skill of arranging and garnishing dishes to enhance their visual appeal.
Understand how to balance flavors, including sweet, salty, sour, bitter, and umami, to create well-rounded dishes.
Nutrition Skills 🥑
Learning how to cook is one thing, but cooking for a healthy lifestyle is another.
Nutritional skills are crucial for maintaining optimal health. Understanding how to make balanced food choices, manage portion sizes, and meet nutritional needs fosters overall well-being.
These skills empower you to make informed dietary decisions, supporting physical and mental health throughout life.
You will need these if you want to maximise your gains in the gym!
Plan balanced and nutritious meals that meet dietary needs and preferences.
Plan and prepare meals in advance for convenience and to support healthy eating habits.
Understand and practice portion control to manage calorie intake and maintain a healthy weight.
Nutrient Awareness: Understand the essential nutrients, including carbohydrates, proteins, fats, vitamins, and minerals, and their roles in the body.
Label Reading: Learn to interpret food labels to make informed choices about nutrition and ingredients.
Supplementation involves the use of dietary supplements to augment nutritional intake. These supplements, such as vitamins, minerals, or protein powders, are taken in addition to a regular diet to address specific nutritional needs or enhance overall health and performance
Familiarize yourself with different food groups and their contributions to a balanced diet.
Emotional Skills: 🕯️ 📝 🧘♂️
Become Resilient in the Face of Adversity
This is everything to do with your emotional intelligence, aka EQ. How aware are you of your emotions? Do you control your emotions or do they control you?
Emotional skills are integral to navigating the complexities of life and not succumbing to escapism and addiction along the way.
Introspective Writing ✍️
Introspective writing involves the exploration of one's thoughts, feelings, and experiences through reflective and contemplative written expression.
This is a MUST, if you want to beat an addiction. And yes, it's a skill. You can get good at this!
Regularly recording personal thoughts, feelings, and experiences in a private journal.
Unstructured and spontaneous writing without concern for grammar or coherence to explore subconscious thoughts.
Focusing on and writing down things one is thankful for to promote a positive mindset.
Writing exercises to express appreciation for your strengths, achievements, and unique qualities, as well as the less desirable qualities.
Write a letter to yourself, forgiving any perceived wrongdoings or mistakes. Be compassionate and understanding.
Keep a journal specifically dedicated to moments of self-compassion, acknowledging when you are kind to yourself.
Use the page as your space to vent and let out all negative emotions without holding back. Expressing and processing intense emotions through written words can be extremely cathartic.
Engaging in a written conversation with oneself to explore conflicting thoughts, emotions, or perspectives.
Stream-of-consciousness writing done first thing in the morning to clear the mind and stimulate creativity.
Thoughtful exploration and analysis of personal experiences, often with the goal of gaining insight or understanding.
Recording dreams and exploring their potential meanings or symbolism.
Writing a letter to one's future or past self, expressing thoughts, advice, or reflections.
Creating visual representations of thoughts, ideas, and associations to explore connections and patterns.
Compiling a list of personal goals, dreams, and aspirations.
Using creative writing techniques, such as poetry or short stories, to express and explore emotions.
Crafting positive affirmations to reinforce self-esteem and cultivate a positive mindset.
Creating a chronological account of significant life events, allowing for reflection on personal growth and change.
Exploring personal traits, values, and behaviors to gain a deeper understanding of oneself.
Meditation 🧘♂️
Focus on the present moment, observing thoughts and sensations without judgment.
Center attention on the breath, observing inhalation and exhalation to promote relaxation and mindfulness.
Cultivate feelings of love and compassion towards oneself and others.
Repeat a specific mantra silently to promote a state of relaxed awareness.
Embrace inner peace and harmony by cultivating acceptance and love for yourself through guided meditation.
Release the weight of the past and nurture personal growth by engaging in forgiveness meditation, allowing oneself to heal and move forward with compassion.
Observe bodily sensations and gain insight into the impermanence of experiences.
Direct attention through different parts of the body, promoting relaxation and awareness.
Sit in a specific posture, focusing on the breath or a koan (a paradoxical question or statement).
Focus on the body's energy centers (chakras) to balance and align energy.
Combine gentle movement with mindfulness, such as walking meditation or Tai Chi.
A state of conscious relaxation that guides practitioners into a state between wakefulness and sleep.
Sit in quiet contemplation without any specific focus, allowing thoughts to come and go.
Focus on external sounds or use sound as a focal point for meditation, often with instruments like singing bowls or gongs.
Reflect on and cultivate feelings of gratitude, fostering a positive mindset.
Acknowledge and label thoughts and sensations as they arise during meditation.
Breathwork 🌬️
Breathwork is a practice that involves conscious control and manipulation of one's breath to achieve specific physical, mental, or emotional benefits. Through various techniques and patterns, breathwork aims to enhance relaxation, reduce stress, and promote overall well-being.
The "physiological sigh" serves as a stress management technique, offering immediate relief for stress or anxiety. Take a double inhale before a complete exhale.
Inhale for a count of 4, hold for 7, and exhale for 8, promoting relaxation and stress reduction.
Focus on deep, abdominal breathing to engage the diaphragm and promote relaxation.
Intense breathing to induce altered states of consciousness, often practiced in a group setting.
Combines rhythmic breathing, cold exposure, and meditation to enhance physical and mental well-being.
Inhale, hold, exhale, and pause, each for equal counts, promoting balance and calmness.
A yogic breathing technique involving slight constriction of the throat, creating a soft, audible sound during both inhalation and exhalation.
Cycle the breath through each nostril, balancing the flow of energy in the body.
Various yogic breathing techniques designed to control and expand the life force energy (prana).
Bhramari (Bee Breath): Create a humming sound during exhalation, calming the mind and reducing stress.
Breath of Fire (Agni Pran): Rapid and rhythmic breathing through the nose to increase energy and warm the body.
Maintain a continuous flow of breath without pauses, often used in music and for meditative purposes.
Mental Skills: 🎓 🏛️ 🧠
Develop your intelligence
Mental skills are everything to do with developing your mind. There is a lot to unpack here... far more than you can imagine.
Some skills might show up repeatedly in different areas, and that's fine. It'll be interesting to see how they appear in each context.
Mental Models 🤓
Mental models are crucial for "high quality thinking" as they provide frameworks for understanding, analyzing, and navigating the complexities of the world, aiding in more effective decision-making and problem-solving.
Here's a list that includes logical fallacies, cognitive biases, first principles, and some philosophical concepts. (There are many more than shared here.)
Breaking down complex problems into fundamental truths or basic elements to understand and solve them more effectively.
The study of mathematical models of strategic interaction among rational decision-makers.
The idea that roughly 80% of effects come from 20% of causes, suggesting that a small percentage of efforts yield a majority of results.
A concept that emphasizes the distinction between a model or representation and reality itself.
Considering the potential consequences of one's decisions beyond the immediate and direct effects.
The apparent contradiction between the high probability of extraterrestrial civilizations and the lack of evidence for or contact with such civilizations.
A concept from Nassim Taleb's work, referring to the idea of taking advantage of unexpected opportunities.
Solving problems by approaching them backward or thinking about the opposite.
A situation in which one participant's gain or loss is exactly balanced by the losses or gains of other participants.
A metaphor that describes an event that comes as a surprise, has a major effect, and is often inappropriately rationalized after the fact.
The statistical tendency for extreme values to move toward the average over time.
The adage that "work expands to fill the time available for its completion."
A term coined by philosopher Daniel Dennett, describing the act of selectively ignoring inconvenient facts or data.
Learn a Language 🇫🇷
Learning a language not only stimulates cognitive functions but also enhances cultural understanding, fosters effective communication skills, and opens up new opportunities for personal and professional growth. You can get started on Youtube immediately.
One of the most widely spoken languages globally, spoken in many countries across Latin America and Europe.
The most spoken language in the world, with a rich cultural heritage and growing global influence.
Known as the language of love, French is spoken in many parts of Africa, Europe, and Canada.
Widely spoken across the Middle East and North Africa, with cultural and economic significance.
A key language in the business world, spoken in Germany and other parts of Europe.
A language with a unique writing system and essential for anyone interested in Japanese culture, technology, or business.
Spoken across a vast area of Eastern Europe and Northern Asia, and increasingly important in international affairs.
The official language of Brazil and Portugal, with growing importance in business and travel.
The official language of India, where a diverse array of languages is spoken.
Widely spoken in East Africa and a valuable language for anyone interested in African culture and development.
A beautiful language spoken in Italy and parts of Switzerland and Slovenia, with a rich cultural heritage.
The official language of both North and South Korea, with a unique writing system.
Spoken in the Netherlands and Belgium, and widely used in international business.
The language of Turkey, with a rich history and cultural influence.
Spoken in Vietnam, a country with a rich history and a growing economy.
The official language of Sweden, with a reputation for being one of the easiest languages for English speakers to learn.
The official language of Israel, with religious and historical significance.
Spoken in Greece and Cyprus, with a long history and cultural influence.
The official language of Thailand, known for its unique script and tonal pronunciation.
The official language of Iran, with a rich literary and cultural heritage.
The official language of Ukraine, but is usable throughout most of eastern Europe.
Musical Instrument 🎸
While musical instruments may involve "movement skills," challenging hand coordination, there is no doubt that learning an instrument is not incredibly beneficial for your brain development.
Guitar: Ideal for those who enjoy strumming chords or picking melodies, it's one of the most popular instruments across genres like rock, pop, and folk.
Easiest thing to learn from Youtube.
Bass Guitar: Providing the foundation in many musical genres, the bass guitar is crucial for creating a solid rhythmic and harmonic framework.
Exploring the world of mixing and digital music creation, where technology meets creativity, allowing individuals to compose, produce, and manipulate sounds for a wide range of musical styles.
Includes EMD, Beat making and loads more. Plenty of online tutorials to get you started.
The oldest instrument of all, learning to sing allows for personal expression and is fundamental to vocal music across genres.
A versatile instrument that lays the foundation for understanding music theory and offers a broad range of musical styles.
Violin: A classical string instrument known for its expressive sound, requiring precision and dexterity in playing.
Cello: A rich-toned string instrument, similar to the violin but with a deeper and more resonant sound, often used in classical and contemporary settings.
Trumpet: A brass instrument that adds brightness and power to ensembles, commonly featured in jazz and classical music.
Saxophone: A versatile woodwind instrument with a distinctive sound, widely used in jazz but also adaptable to various genres.
Flute: A graceful woodwind instrument that offers a melodic and airy tone, suitable for classical, jazz, and contemporary music.
Skills by Industries 👨🔧
Remember, every industry comprises subsets of careers and jobs, each demanding a unique set of skills. It's essential to conduct further research to explore specific requirements and identify the skills necessary for your chosen field. Use this to see if something catches your interest.
To be honest there are loads more! But let's move on.
Skills by Academic Studies 👨🎓
As with the industries list above, each field of academic study encompasses various subcategories and disciplines, each with a subset of unique skills.
The following list includes ONLY the 3 most common sub-domains, but if a particular field captures your interest, it's important to take the time to research the multitude of possibilities within that domain.
IMPORTANT
You don't need to attend university or pursue a career in academia to delve into these topics. YouTube is teeming with highly intelligent and creative individuals discussing every subject under the sun.
Use this list to explore the internet and discover fascinating content, feed your curious mind, learn interesting stuff, rather than letting algorithms bombard you with mindless crap!
This merely scratches the surface of what you can explore. Millennia wouldn't be enough to learn even half of it.
Learning is a lifelong journey, and the more we explore, the more we realize the extent of what we don't know. It's the beauty and challenge of the ever-expanding landscape of human knowledge. The key is often not to know everything but to cultivate a mindset of curiosity, adaptability, and a willingness to learn throughout one's life.
Social Skills: ❤️ 👨👩👧👧 💬
Develop your relationships
Social skills are crucial for developing human relationships as they enable effective communication, empathy, and understanding between individuals. These skills form the foundation for building meaningful connections, fostering cooperation, and navigating the complexities of social interactions.
You may see repeated skills, but each one holds unique significance within its specific domain. For instance, self-awareness in the context of dating differs from its application in a marriage. In every instance, it presents a distinct opportunity to develop a new skill.
Dating Skills 🌹
- Appearance / Style
- Hygiene
Relationship Skills 🙋♂️
Intimacy Skills 🌋
Family Skills 👵
Parenting Skills 👨👩👧👧
Communication Skills (Go Deeper) 🗣️
Communication skills are highly transferable and can significantly enhance various facets of your life, spanning emotional, social and financial endeavours.
You can learn about communication skills broadly, which is highly recommended, but you can also explore each subdomain on it's own.
Resources for learning about these skills abound online through various media platforms and an extensive selection of valuable books.
Paying full attention, asking clarifying questions, and responding appropriately to demonstrate understanding.
Expressing thoughts, ideas, and information in a clear and concise manner.
Being aware of and using body language, facial expressions, and gestures to convey messages effectively.
Understanding and sharing the feelings of others, demonstrating compassion and emotional intelligence.
Adjusting communication style based on the audience, context, or situation.
Ensuring that messages are easily understood, avoiding ambiguity or jargon.
Speaking with assurance and conviction to inspire trust and credibility.
Providing constructive feedback and being open to receiving feedback for personal and professional growth.
Asking open-ended questions to encourage discussion and gather information.
Addressing conflicts calmly, actively listening to all parties, and finding mutually beneficial solutions.
Convincing others to adopt a particular viewpoint or take specific actions.
Using narratives to convey information in a compelling and memorable way.
Engaging in discussions to reach agreements or compromises.
Understanding and respecting cultural differences in communication styles.
Communicating diplomatically and considerately, especially in delicate or sensitive situations.
Handling conflicts constructively, finding solutions, and maintaining positive relationships.
Building and maintaining professional relationships through effective communication.
Conveying information efficiently and avoiding unnecessary details.
Articulating thoughts, feelings, and ideas authentically and assertively.
Establishing and nurturing positive connections with others.
Effectively using written communication in emails, messages, and other digital platforms.
Delivering engaging and informative presentations to various audiences.
Proactively addressing potential conflicts to prevent escalation.
Maintaining a consistent message and tone across various communication channels.
Building and sustaining positive relationships with others.
Analyzing and evaluating information while listening to identify key points and nuances.
Adapting to challenges or misunderstandings and continuing effective communication.
Receiving and processing feedback gracefully, using it for self-improvement.
Calming tense situations and facilitating open communication to resolve conflicts.
Adjusting presentation style and content based on the audience and purpose.
Financial Skills: 💰 🏦 💼
The Keys To Building Wealth
In this final category it's all about making & managing money.
Employment Skills a.k.a. Soft Skills ⏰
- Laser sharp focus for at least 90min at a time.
- Being able to create a distraction free environment.
- Mitigate procrastination
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Entrepreneurship Skills 💸
Entrepreneurship isn't a single skill, but rather a stack of skills. To be a successful entrepreneur, you must master the art of juggling most of the skills presented below.
None of us are born with all these skills; we all begin gradually, acquiring one or two and learning the rest over time. Which skill seems like a promising starting point for you?
- Laser sharp focus for at least 90min at a time.
- Being able to create a distraction free environment.
- Mitigate procrastination.
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Generating new ideas and finding innovative solutions to challenges.
Assessing and mitigating risks associated with business decisions.
Navigating change and adjusting strategies based on market conditions.
Bouncing back from failures and setbacks with determination.
Making informed and timely decisions to drive the business forward.
Developing a clear and inspiring vision for the business's future.
Building and maintaining relationships with stakeholders, mentors, and other entrepreneurs.
Understanding financial statements, budgeting, and managing cash flow.
Effectively promoting products or services and closing deals.
Reaching mutually beneficial agreements with partners, clients, and suppliers.
Inspiring and guiding a team toward achieving common goals.
Prioritizing tasks and managing time efficiently.
Understanding customer needs and providing value through products or services.
Gathering and analyzing data to understand market trends and customer preferences.
Articulating ideas clearly and persuasively to various stakeholders.
Identifying challenges and developing effective solutions.
Efficiently utilizing resources, including human capital, finances, and technology.
Leveraging technology for business operations, marketing, and communication.
Planning, organizing, and overseeing projects to ensure successful implementation.
Staying updated on industry trends, emerging technologies, and business strategies.
Understanding and managing one's own emotions and those of others in a professional setting.
Convincingly communicating the value proposition of products or services.
Assembling and leading a cohesive team that works well together.
Understanding basic legal aspects related to business operations, contracts, and intellectual property.
Making decisions that align with ethical standards and values.
Presenting ideas, pitches, or products confidently and persuasively.
Utilizing social media platforms for marketing and brand building.
Understanding international markets and considering global business opportunities.
Implementing systems to manage and enhance relationships with customers.
Money Skills 💹
- Building and maintaining an emergency fund.
- Understanding & implementing the 10% rule
- Understanding investment options and strategies.
- Keeping investment portfolio healthy.
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Looking for More Skills?
I've previously noted that this list only touches the tip of the iceberg in terms of available skills.
Like what about handy man skills?
Your prospective or current partner would undoubtedly appreciate your capability to hang pictures on the wall or fix the toilet handle.
But we have to draw the line somewhere. There is enough here to change your life forever!
At some point you have to realise that acquiring a new skill demands self-responsibility.
Choosing an item from this list, conducting research, and devising a plan are ALSO skills you must develop. Maybe the most important ones. These are the skills of skill-development!